sins of the flesh

today i talked to my gurlfriend and as always it was fantastic. After i talked to her i started talkin to someone on skype that lives in the phillipines and we started talking about whats up in her life and how she was lonely and that nobody is courting her. i thought to myself a sec and i didnt know what exactly was involved in courtship so i asked . when she responded what she told me about it and how it works sounded really romantic and sweet. why cant people in the states be that way instead of commiting sins of the flesh first then wondering why it didnt work out with what they had. i hate that so much and it makes me appreciate what i have with the amazing gurl i have in my life and how i got to were i am now in my life with her . when we started talkin we didnt let the physical things distract us considering i was in iraq it wasnt hard . what im sayin is that in order to feel tru love i think it is important to talk about your feelings what you have in common and all the stuff that you would have never found out if all your doing is exploring their body that comes latter in relationship and if you know the person on a emotional level then when you finaly have sex it makes it that much more special thats all i have to say about that .